Sexual Deviancy and the Skewed Soul

In the homes of the abused children of the past we have an underground present today of the S&M and Domination and Submission scenes. A parent is a role model for a child at an early age as loving authority. If this relationship is tainted with over discipline at an early age then the bonding is broken at the soul level and an immaturity in the relationship arena of openness and balance of power may be missing.

An average office worker who is quiet and polite by day and brings out the individuals fetish bondage gear by night to play out power role playing in sexuality replace nurturing intimacy with that decision during the sex act. If they rear children then that energy is the hidden sexual model that the young ones grow up with their DNA replicating to. Often the pierced and alternatively dressed and dyed or gothic styled individuals are more conservative in the bedroom because the subtle rebellion against traditional society is present in the personal styling of the individual instead of hiding it in the closet. Another paper I have written; Sexual Orientation and Soul Motivation has some clues as to how the fetish scene may have been created. It is prevalent in the hetero and gay community and a female soul incarnated in a body of a male for example or a male incarnate in a female body are hidden from most of society as a blatant truth unless accentuated by revealing feminine traits or masculine traits in attitude or dress. Take this a little further and it is not difficult to see the exaggerated version of this in the fetish scene. For the hetero participants the power dynamics are there with some humor and dress up for all orientation grown ups. Many ways to create sexuality as a fashion show that allow intimate bonding to a soul displaying outwardly instead of the garment behind the eyes inviting inward reflection and contact.

What occurs is that in extreme cases where an individual equates the fear chemical with sexual gratification (some present in the D and S activities as laced with the orgasmic experience creating a genetic equation desiring to feed off anxiety in order to allow the achievement) with either a denial of orgasm replaced with pain from consensual assault as the hidden, prideful being that is valued for being able to participate in extreme submission in order to sexually gratify another party engaging the individual thus agreeing to a slave bond relationship of consented abuse that the other cannot be charged for. Quite the trophy partner of consented abuse that is untouchable by the law unless they get caught.

What is obvious in these scenarios is two things: somewhere in the individuals lives there was likely a time where bonding with an authority figure of influence did not take place in a healthy manner. In that first scenario there is now a clever deal made with a person exercising power over the other who controls who will abuse the individual with consent. Another is likely in all D&S and S&M themes individuals who have not had a healthy bonding experience with a loving parent, friend relative or partner of a deep nature have not had the opportunity to then learn how to bond deeply with the entity’s own higher consciousness or God self on an un conflicted soul level.

Some have come from broken homes that have chosen spiritual, non religious study or moved from one to the other without getting involved in the above, underground movements.

For the traditional, societal model it may be difficult for the baby boom generation especially to understand the generation after them (with the exception of those older participants keeping alive the memory of the Marqis de Sade) to understand the mind of the present generation and or be in denial about where the mind spawned from. Answers area never given to the demanding individual from others who requires examining the soul for why the playground of learning became treacherous or skewed. Reflection away from the behavior is necessary in order to sit upon a different chair without the bondage gear tying the individual to a repetitive past.

Author's Bio
I am Aryana B. Hudson founder of Blue Matrix Energetics™; a powerful, system of Quantum Mind Tech™ and energetic healing I spent many years practicing healing and teaching advanced energetic techniques to practitioners. For three years, I held the positions of Director and President of the Canadian Reiki Association was profiled in the Globe and Mail as leader in complementary, energetic therapies industry, and later developed Blue Matrix Energetics.™ I am also a published author of Drums of the Winged Carrier 2020, screenwriter Artist, and have over ten years of experience in the corporate, business world in sales, marketing and management.

Over the past fourteen years I have continued to upgrade my science-based knowledge and experience of the brain, our biological healing potentials, genetics, the human energy field and the variety of frequency realms that we inhabit as multi-dimensional beings from my observations as a healing professional. This diverse background allows me to provide you with comprehensive, powerful, healing sessions and training that are free of new age dogma but allow everyone to connect to the ultimate healer; you as a Divine Creator. When I teach and do healing work it is not my personality but I as Creator that facilitates the work I do in Blue Matrix. It is my dream to see all people awaken to their highest creative potential and together achieve a sublime future.
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