Sexual Orientation and Soul Motivation

As a heterosexual woman I remember remarking so many times about the creative genius of many men in the gay community that offer products and services to us. In particular there is a flair of caring towards elegance in dress, decor, scent that is lovely from some of these men.

I have memories of a handful of male incarnations as a female soul so from personal experience I know it is possible to switch from a female XX body to a male XY chromosome incarnation in a reincarnation. Many reasons for this may be present in each individual and worth contemplating if that contemplation stirs the soul or is relevant to the reader.

Sexualization of women by men who have chosen a highly masculine presentation that in some manner is prejudicial towards a female because of ignorance of her as a being incarnate in female form affords another expression in a later incarnation to correct that through the reincarnation process. A female soul for example, experiencing life as a gay male hairdresser or fashion designer who now serves female clients, adoring them with enthusiastic, non sexual innuendo laced service would provide the soul with the opportunity to learn what it is to nurture the gender it may have prejudiced. In addition technically if a soul is female then an attraction to another man means on a soul level heterosexual soul gender expression through the incorrect body gender expression; not an easy challenge to live. Those who are women souls in male bodies that have heterosexual relationships have chosen to embrace the male incarnation and sexual expression for reasons of growth and understanding of the male gender perhaps if the ladies failed to do so in another incarnation. Here you have a lesbian on a soul level expressing as a heterosexual female. Cross dressing of a female soul in a male body incarnation may be an expression of, "hello, I'm a woman in this body!"

Heterosexual men may understand the gay male possible hidden motivations a little better upon contemplating and leave themselves out of the 'two women' sexual fantasy that lesbians would not likely invite them into (how many women get off on two men together as a fantasy? Why do hetero men so often embrace two women as a fantasy uninvited?). Then we have a more enlightened society of people who look at their hidden sexual motivations instead of subconsciously being run by them.

A large surge of bisexual activity in women who are married or single indicates that something is incorrect about men and women relating to one another sexually. A female orgasm is a clitoral spasm that is anywhere from five to ten spasms including the secretion of lubricant from the g-spot. A male ejaculation is a shorter, powerful spasm lasting from one to five (to be generous)spasms. So the female experience is longer and very sensual if she is completely relaxed. So coming together would mean the female begins the orgasmic process first. Perhaps that is what is meant hidden in our language as 'ladies first'. A knowledge of the female sexual function by the male partner is necessary as the male's is more obvious. Bisexuality growing in women could be left behind if more men understood what clearly sexual education has not explained well enough during the puberty of today's dating crowd.

Lesbians, from lipstick girl on girl to strap on lovers who say,'baby I don't need to be the man who could not satisfy you is an indication of females sovereign sexually away from the male population. Similar situation in women if the female is a man incarnated as a lesbian which may be common in butch or bull dyke without prejudice or stereotype as exceptions may occur.

Harems and polygamy have existed and would likely have encouraged the development of lesbianism because if you are one of a dozen or more wives waiting for sexual companionship and want to rebel that you have better sex without ration and are threatened with death or imprisonment if you have sex with another male, what else is left but a little sex with the other women? So the myth about women being less sexual may have been arranged by the existence of harems ensuring that not to mention the clitoral removal still present some areas of the world. Yeah, if the clit's cut off you're guaranteed to be less sexual honey.

Big horniness in those pornos' showing the male cum shots and a dry female genitalia shot. Yawn. I'd rather be a lesbian too if I was educated by the porno industry about female sexual response. Fake orgasms glorified on the blue movie screen is not likely to get a woman going. Pulling out while having sex and ejaculating deprives the female pc pressure necessary for a good orgasm and a lousy birth control method due to seminal leakage. Unlikely that many husbands would like to be replaced with a vibrator when they are at work while she fakes it with you. Items to clean up for the heterosexual souls that would like to bond beautifully.

Why are so many lesbians plain looking while the gay males cater to the glam woman? If the beautiful groomed women have 'he men' as partners that do not appreciate the self care that goes into he grooming and ridicule them on some level then potentially you may end up with a narcissistic woman who is then obsessed with her appearance to get the he man's attention or one who turns plain lesbian who says 'f-off' I'm not your doll and turns to a female partner.

Is it any wonder why there is a diversity in sexual orientation?
Gay culture is dangerous in one respect only: If the participants self identify with the label and on a soul level desire to change and experience(a different choice could be one of the ones mentioned above)clinging to the community and concern about acceptance if the individual turns hetero for example or stops cross dressing to move to a new sexual expression. Heterosexual community does not have a 'cultural identification' as much however over identification with 'straight' may also cause concern if a being becomes gay for a while because of traditional family values.

In all orientations perhaps the greatest lesson is elegant confidence in an individuals choice to experience and f- off to those who judge. Truth of personal expression only threatens those who are liars in their own life about what they desire to experience on many levels besides sexuality. The stronger the judgment or gossip (what is gossip if it does not judge another?)
Screaming truth with riots and rebellion is unnecessary when clinging to peers and fighting gossip ends.

The individual that lives the kid inside wanting to experience without worrying what they think is the elegant confidence that provides the greatest freedom to an individual.

Author's Bio
I am Aryana B. Hudson founder of Blue Matrix Energetics™; a powerful, system of Quantum Mind Tech™ and energetic healing I spent many years practicing healing and teaching advanced energetic techniques to practitioners. For three years, I held the positions of Director and President of the Canadian Reiki Association was profiled in the Globe and Mail as leader in complementary, energetic therapies industry, and later developed Blue Matrix Energetics.™ I am also a published author of Drums of the Winged Carrier 2020, screenwriter Artist, and have over ten years of experience in the corporate, business world in sales, marketing and management.

Over the past fourteen years I have continued to upgrade my science-based knowledge and experience of the brain, our biological healing potentials, genetics, the human energy field and the variety of frequency realms that we inhabit as multi-dimensional beings from my observations as a healing professional. This diverse background allows me to provide you with comprehensive, powerful, healing sessions and training that are free of new age dogma but allow everyone to connect to the ultimate healer; you as a Divine Creator . When I teach and do healing work it is not my personality but I as Creator that facilitates the work I do in Blue Matrix. It is my dream to see all people awaken to their highest creative potential and together achieve a sublime future.
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